Feel Close Again – Without Awkward Conversations or Starting Over

A multi-video communication reset to rebuild emotional intimacy and reconnect as a couple — even if life feels busy, distant, or stuck in the same old patterns.

Go at your own pace. Watch solo or together — then use the workbook to bring the tools into everyday connection. 

Our Most Comprehensive 

Emotional Intimacy 

Program Ever.

If your marriage feels more like managing logistics than sharing life… if you’re tired of surface-level talk, awkward silence, or feeling like roommates… this step-by-step program will help you find your words again and rebuild the emotional intimacy you’ve been missing.
In just over 30 minutes of teaching — delivered through 10 structured videos — you’ll learn a proven, repeatable framework to reset how you talk to each other so you can feel close, understood, and united.

The Silent Struggle Most Couples Face

We help married couples who feel emotionally disconnected reignite their communication and rebuild closeness — without conflict, awkward conversations, or needing your spouse to “be on the same page” first — thanks to our proven COUPLE Method™, built on The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®. 

10 Video Program
Communication Reset Workbook
8 Bonus Guides
Lifetime Access

Your Investment Today is Just $97 

What Couples Are Saying  💬 

 “This workshop was exactly what we needed to reignite our spark, deepen our emotional connection, and finally start communicating openly about intimacy again. With two young kids (ages 7 and 4) and nonstop schedules, we’d drifted into ‘just getting through the day.’ The daily prompts made it easy to reconnect — even on the tough days — and gave us the tools to be intentional with each other. By the end, we felt so much more seen, heard, and united.” 

— Rachel & David

 “Like most couples, we’ve faced our share of ups and downs — and stepping into this new season of our relationship, we knew we needed something deeper. The workshop was powerful. It brought us closer, helped us complete a meaningful 7-Day Challenge, and gave us space to focus on the areas that matter most. One-on-one time, real conversations, and a deeper understanding of what makes us work. We especially realized how much we need to strengthen our financial pillar, especially as I’m in the middle of a job transition. This experience gave us clarity, tools, and renewed connection.”

— Ben & Lisa

When Conversation Feels Forced and Connection Fades…

→ You’re not yelling.
→ You’re not slamming doors.
→ You’ve just… stopped really talking.

Maybe you: 

→ Only talk about schedules, kids, and to-do lists 
→ Feel like every “deep” conversation turns  tense or awkward 
→ Don’t know how to bring up what’s really on your heart 
→ Miss the days when you could talk for hours

You’re doing life together, but the emotional intimacy isn’t where you want it to be. If you’ve ever thought, “We’re fine… but we’re not really connected,” Communication Reset is for you.

What You’ll Learn Inside Communication Reset

In this 10-video program, Tony & Alisa walk you through the COUPLE Method™ through the lens of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® so you can rebuild emotional connection one conversation at a time.

You’ll also receive a full set of COUPLE Method™ worksheets — one worksheet for each step — so you always know exactly what to do and how to apply it in real conversations.

Why Communication Fades (and What to Do About It) 
Discover the subtle ways emotional distance creeps in—and why “we just don’t talk anymore” is more common than you think.   
How to Talk About Hard Things Without Blowing Up or Shutting Down 
Use simple scripts and tools to have honest conversations about money, in-laws, sex, schedules, and more—without spiraling into conflict. 
Your Personalized Communication Reset Plan
Create a simple 7–14 day plan so you actually use what you learn, not just “watch and forget.”

The COUPLE Method™ 

Learn six powerful habits that change the 
way you talk: 
hoose Your Battles / Choose Your Time
pen Up & Be Vulnerable
se “I Feel” Statements
alms Up (Your Posture and Presence)
isten to Understand
xtend Grace

Here’s Everything You Get Inside Communication Reset

The Complete 10 Video Program (Expert Teaching from Tony & Alisa)

Guided step-by-step video training to reset the way you communicate, reconnect emotionally, and deepen your intimacy — even if you feel stuck or out of sync.

Retail Value: $197

The Full Communication Reset Workbook & 8 Bonus Guides

Includes every worksheet from the COUPLE Method™, 7–14 Day Reset Plan, State of Our Communication, Monthly and Yearly Communication Check-ins, and many more! Each is designed to help you implement as you learn.

Retail Value: $197

BONUS: Connect Like You Did When You First Met eBook

Rediscover the fun, playful connection you had when everything felt new. Includes creative prompts and questions to spark emotional closeness again.

Retail Value: $12

Total Retail Value = $409+

Your Investment Today: Just $97

*That’s less than most couples spend on a single date night — and it could transform your communication for years to come.

Try Communication Reset 

Risk-Free

If you don’t feel more connected after completing the videos and workbook, simply email us within 30 days for a full refund — no questions asked.

Meet Your Guides to an Extraordinary Marriage

Tony & Alisa

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo are the co-hosts of the #1 marriage podcast, The ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, and bestselling authors of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

They’ve helped thousands of couples around the world restore connection, rebuild trust, and create extraordinary marriages through practical, faith-filled tools. In Communication Reset, they’re giving you their most comprehensive emotional intimacy framework yet—so you can start the year truly connected.

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo

Founders, ONE Extraordinary Marriage 

Married Since October 1996

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