Yes! Many of our success stories started with just one spouse. Our framework focuses on "What can I do?" to create positive change, even if your spouse isn't ready yet. This program is designed to help you create positive changes that often inspire your spouse to join the journey naturally.
Transform Your Marriage from Disconnected to Extraordinary
—Even If Your Spouse Isn't Ready
Don’t settle for a “logistics-only” marriage—transform your marriage from one that is emotionally distant and sexually frustrated to one of deep connection and passion.
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The Silent Pain of Surface-Level Marriage
You remember when things were different. When conversations went deeper than just coordinating schedules and managing logistics.
Now?
You're living parallel lives under the same roof.
The emotional distance grows wider each day. You're tired of having the same arguments over and over, feeling unheard and misunderstood.
Maybe you've even stopped trying to connect because it hurts too much.
Imagine
What If Tomorrow Could Be Different?
Imagine waking up to a marriage where:
You laugh together again, genuinely enjoying each other's company
You feel safe to be vulnerable without fear or defensiveness
Sexual and emotional intimacy feel effortless and fulfilling
You're actually facing life's challenges together
Your spouse actively seeks out time with you
You feel cherished, valued, and understood
I felt like his roommate more than his wife. We barely talked and didn't feel connected to each other. It was like we were just making it through the daily tasks but it didn't feel like a marriage.
- Sarah, married 7 years
"After just a few sessions, we are making lots of progress. We make it a point to put each other before our kids and all the stuff that happens in life. We are talking a lot more and actually laughing again. It feels good to see my husband smile again."
—Sarah, one month later
The Reality Many Couples Face
For Wives
Feeling emotionally disconnected and unheard
Struggling to communicate needs effectively
Wanting deeper spiritual and emotional intimacy
Feeling stuck in surface-level interactions
Unsure how to rebuild trust and connection
For Husbands
Frustrated by lack of sexual intimacy
Caught in cycles of conflict and shutdown
Not knowing how to understand wife's perspective
Wanting to be a better leader but lacking framework
Feeling alone in marriage struggles
You're not alone.
62% of wives cite communication as their top challenge, while
68% of husbands report sexual intimacy concerns.
The good news? There's a proven path forward.
Introducing
🌟 Intimacy Mastery
Intimacy Mastery is a transformative monthly program where couples get live coaching, proven tools, and private community support to break free from surface-level marriage and create the deep, lasting connection they crave.
You Get Our Complete Path to an Extraordinary Marriage
LIVE Monthly Intimacy Workshop
Expert-led sessions addressing real marriage challenges with practical solutions
Personalized Marriage Roadmap
Custom guidance based on your unique situation and goals
Private Community Support
Connect anonymously with others on the same journey in our moderated forums
5-Minute Marriage-Building Resources
Practical scripts, exercises, and tools delivered in 5-minute segments to fit your busy life
Direct Access to Tony & Alisa
Get guidance from marriage coaches with 15+ years of experience helping couples thrive
Transform your marriage using our proven framework—The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®—even if your spouse isn't ready yet.
Break Free from the Loneliness of a Disconnected Marriage
– Even If You're the Only One Ready to Change
Learn practical tools to stop feeling hurt and lonely
Transform your marriage from roommates to feeling like newlyweds again
Go from struggling with trust and communication to rediscovering joy and connection
No more routine, boring sex—you can experience fresh intimacy
No more of the same arguments over and over—you’ll get to the core issues
🚨 The Unspoken Truth About Marriage Help
Most couples wait 6 years in pain before seeking help. But you don't need your spouse's permission to start healing your marriage.
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My small changes led to big changes in our marriage
"I can start improving my marriage by working on myself first. Small changes in my behavior can lead to big changes in our marriage."
—Ken, Transformed His Marriage After 32 Years
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Our marriage has completely changed. We're like newlyweds again
"We discovered your program when we were going through one of the most difficult seasons of our marriage. The 6 Pillars framework has brought so much healing and forgiveness. Our marriage has completely changed and we're like newlyweds once again."
—Rose & James, Married 37 Years
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We've rediscovered the joy and connection we had when we first married
"After decades of marriage, we'd fallen into negative patterns that seemed impossible to break. Communication had broken down, and I felt helpless to fix things. Through the monthly workshops and coaching, we learned how to address issues constructively instead of sweeping them under the rug. The faith-aligned guidance resonated deeply with us. Having a clear roadmap made all the difference. We've rediscovered the joy and connection we had when we first married."
—Greg, Married 37 years
What Makes Intimacy Mastery Different
Proven Framework
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® system has helped thousands of couples transform their marriages
Individual Focus
Create positive change even if starting alone - many of our most successful members began this way
Complete Privacy
Optional anonymous participation and strict confidentiality protection
Practical Application
Real solutions you can implement immediately, not just theory
Ongoing Support
Regular live coaching, community support, and ever-growing resource library
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Helped us get to the core of our issues and gave us the tools we need
"I was skeptical thinking it wouldn't be fair. Boy was I wrong. We were treated equally and fairly. Alisa helped us get to the core of our issues and gave us the tools we need to have an awesome marriage."
—Jeff, Initially Skeptical Husband
💝 Incredible Transformations
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Our sex life is booming
"Our marriage has never been stronger, our communication is like never before, our finances are completely transparent and finally under control. Also our sex life is booming and we have discovered date night again."
—Jacob & Sarah
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We communicate more, touch more and find time to date once again
"Being able to sit down and go through the 6 Pillars has helped us so much. We communicate more, we touch more, we find time to just socialize and date once again. Thank you!"
—Cindy, Married 32 Years
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My husband definitely sees a change in my mood.
"My husband definitely sees a change in my mood. He will say “I’m glad you took time to listen to the podcasts, proud of you for taking time for yourself!” (Sometimes difficult with 7 kids!) Thank you guys for always being there for me! Even though you don’t realize the big impact you have had on our marriage, I am grateful for you both on a daily basis!!"
—Karen, Married 23 Years
Stop feeling like roommates
Become lovers again
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Comprehensive Program is a proven plan that includes:
LIVE Monthly Intimacy Workshop with Tony & Alisa (60 min + replay)
Personalized marriage roadmap based on your assessment
Privacy-protected discussion forum
LIVE quarterly special guest workshops
Weekly micro-content: scripts, exercises, conversation starters
Direct access to Tony & Alisa
Ever-growing library of tools and resources
Weekly digest newsletter
Your Complete Support System to Create An Extraordinary Marriage with Confidence, Connection, and Community
Meet Your Guides to an Extraordinary Marriage
Tony & Alisa
With over 15 years of successful marriage coaching experience, Tony and Alisa have helped thousands of couples transform their marriages using the proven 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework. Their practical, compassionate approach has earned them recognition as leading experts in marriage transformation.
Our Promise to You
Try Intimacy Mastery risk-free with our 30-day money-back guarantee. If you don't see positive changes in your marriage within your first month, we'll refund your investment in full.
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"If you are on the fence or think marriage coaching isn't for you, I promise that if you are committed to making a change this is exactly the road you should take."
—Jim, married 12 years
Choose Your Path to an Extraordinary Marriage
Monthly
Membership
$47/month
• All program features
• Cancel anytime
• 30-day guarantee
Price Per Couple
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Annual
Membership
$497/year
• Save 12% vs monthly
• All program features
• 30-day guarantee
Price Per Couple
VIP Package + Annual Membership
$1,247
• Everything in Annual
• (3) 1-on-1 private coaching sessions
• Priority support
• Exclusive VIP resources
Price Per Couple
All Pricing is Per Couple. Try Intimacy Mastery risk-free with our 30-day money-back guarantee.
If you don't see positive changes in your marriage within your first month, we'll refund your investment in full.
Frequently Asked Questions
What if my spouse isn't interested in working on our marriage? Can this still help?
How much time do I need to commit?
How does the private community work?
What if we've tried everything else?
I feel embarrassed about our struggles. How private is this?
Is this faith-based?
Is this just for couples with major problems?
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Don't settle for a disconnected, surface-level marriage. Take the first step toward the extraordinary marriage you desire.
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